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remember valentines day as a wee tyke in elementary school? were you a cool kid who got lots of valentines? Did you get any? Do you think it had any effect on your self esteem as a child? skip ahead as many years as you need to till you get to today. Now in days, it can be like valentines day everyday, if you have facebook that is. I do. wanna know why? i'm not sure i know why. like everyone, i was curious. i suppose the premise is that you can 'connect' with people you haven't seen for 15 years. But is it really that cool? do you really want to 'get back in touch' with that person you went to school with or worked with or whatever? As one girl wrote on my 'wall', she get's to reconnect with the 'relics of her past'. I thought it was funny. I realized i am a relic of her past. It made me think, other than a couple actual friends that you really do miss, about 80% of everyone that invites themselves to be your friend may be using you as a number to show the world just how many friends they have on facebook.
But oops, now i've done it. will this piss anyone off? will people stop wanting to be my friend? oh gosh, i hope not, or not. But whatever, it's a fad, a trend. It serves it's purpose, it's just another cool thing to do. closeness at a distance.